In life, there are days and moments where everything we do does not feel enough, or face situations that are beyond our control. A common response to such instances is to doubt ourselves and our abilities, and that is a very normal and human thing to do. But the effect of self-doubt can cut both ways: It can either spur us to achieve our goals and thereby boost our confidence levels, or cause us to feel entirely powerless and paralysed. Fortunately, whether we allow it to work for or against us is mostly up to us. In this issue, we will explore the ways in which we can harness self-doubt to build confidence -- one step at a time. | Moving from Self Doubt to Self Confidence It would be nice if moving from self doubt to self confidence just came naturally. However, moving from self doubt to self confidence is a practice you can adopt, with practice. When you are able to identify where your insecurities lie and what is stopping you from feeling confident, you can then start the process of moving from self doubt to self confidence. You will be able to work on eliminating the blocks that are keeping you from moving through life with assuredness. Here are some of the culprits for the patterns of self doubt and ideas for what you can do about them. | Why confidence and knowledge can lead to smart money decisions Two common areas that cause people to procrastinate financially are knowledge and confidence. Logically, we know that financial literacy can boost our confidence to make informed money-management decisions. Yet, many people tell me that they lack the confidence to learn and absorb that financial knowledge, which holds them back. However, everybody is capable of effectively managing their money. While some need mindset adjustments, others need a confidence boost or a little reassurance that they are on the right track. Take small steps, follow and when doubt starts to creep in, remind yourself that money is only a tool and you are learning. | 9 Habits That Are Destroying Your Confidence | Proudly Brought to You I seek to reach out to people who believe in safeguarding the interests of their loved ones. Let me know if I can be of help to someone you know or care about. We can make a difference to lives when it matters most. Cheers. | Idawati | | | | unsubscribe | You are receiving this email because you're my client, a friend or you've given permission to receive this email. If you'd rather not receive our emails, you can unsubscribe from our mailing list by clicking 'Unsubscribe' above. DISCLAIMER This is not an official AIA newsletter. The views and opinions expressed in this publication are those of the author and do not reflect the official policy or position of AIA Singapore Private Limited (Company Registration No. 201106386R) (AIA), any other agency, organisation, employer or company. Assumptions made in the analysis are not reflective of the position of AIA other than the author. © Idawati, All rights reserved. | | | Jonathan ONG. Sales Engineer I first met Ida when we were heading to a Christmas gathering with my then-girlfriend, now wife. After that, we had many conversations, and she has always been readily available to listen and help. She had been my wife’s financial advisor long before I knew her, assisting with financial planning and encouraging her to develop healthy spending habits.
We had our first meet-up for financial planning last year, and what really resonated with me was her reassurance about having someone to turn to in times of need, someone who genuinely cared. This way, I wouldn’t have to navigate the complexities of policies and claims on my own. Beyond being my financial advisor, she’s also a friend I’ve known for some time, which made me comfortable entrusting her with my policies. I even decided to make some changes on my existing ones to work with her.
I’ll definitely recommend Ida to anyone I know who needs financial advice or assistance with policy management. | | | Jia Yun LIEW. University Student I enjoy working with Ida & Yvonne. They help me to understand about financial planning and also very transparent in sharing with me how the plan works. They will inform me of the pros and cons & what will really suit me according to my needs and wants, especially when I am still a university student. They are definitely not the pushy type who will hard sell stuff, so I am really thankful for that! Both Ida and Yvonne are really nice and great to talk to, I've had multiple pleasant chats with them and it is overall enjoyable for me! Thank you both!
| | | TAN Poh Beng. Retiree I met Ida a few years ago and decided to engage her as my financial advisor because my previous agent did not have any time for me. She helped me reassess my needs and revise my plans according to my current situation. She is very responsive and knowledgeable in her profession, providing good alternatives and recommendations. Despite her busy schedule, she always ensures that we meet up yearly, which I really appreciate.
Thank you very much! | | | Naufal. System Engineer I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to Ida for her exceptional dedication and support. Her unwavering commitment to ensuring my basic needs are met has not gone unnoticed. Her ability to break down complex policies into easily understandable terms has been invaluable. Thank you for going above and beyond in guiding me through financial matters. Your expertise and kindness have made a significant impact on my understanding and peace of mind. Thank you so much Ida! | | | Yi Leong GOH. IT Deskside Idawati was introduced to me by my younger sister, who is a close friend of hers. She has been very helpful in assisting several members of my family with their financial planning. Idawati's friendly attitude and patience in explaining the financial plan were greatly appreciated. Her dedication and clear communication made the process understandable and straightforward. I would highly recommend her services to anyone seeking professional and caring financial advice | | | Praveen M G. Application Developer I had the pleasure of being introduced to Ida through one of my colleagues. Given my limited prior experience with personal insurances, I was grateful that she took the time to thoroughly explain all the details in a precise manner. This guidance led me to confidently choose AIA for my insurance needs.
What truly sets Ida apart is her remarkable availability. Being easily reachable makes a world of difference, particularly when navigating through the process of making claims or seeking clarification about various policy aspects. This level of accessibility not only provides convenience but also instills a sense of trust and reliability in the services she offers. | | | | |